We are all born with a blueprint to grow into our authentic self. The blueprint offers the most comfortable relationship with gravity as well as efficient movement potential. Sometimes as children, we are prevented from developing into the potential our blueprint offers. We are co-opted and shaped either according to our environment or to someone else’s needs and requirements. We are conned into another form before we have a chance to form ourselves as we might or should have been. Adults in our lives may have conspired to form us to meet a need or plan of their own, or match the shape they have adopted to move through the world. These directions can be explicit and verbal, but are more often unconscious, subtle, and unspoken, although no less potent and altering.